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Every wedding is
different and
planning
a timetable to follow for your wedding day must be customized to each
individual
situation. The following are basic guidelines to help your
special day go as smoothly as possible. These guidelines assume a
church
wedding with wedding photos taken before the ceremony
(recommended).
Two and a half to
three hours
prior
to the ceremony:
The bride, her mother, and
attendants
arrive at the church and begin putting on their makeup, curling their
hair,
(if not previously done by a professional salon) and dressing.
This
is expected to take approximately one hour, leaving a full hour, plus,
for wedding photographs.
Two hours prior
to the
ceremony:
The florist should arrive with
the
alter
baskets, bouquets, corsages, boutonniere's, and other assorted wedding
flowers. The groom, his parents, and attendants will arrive
at the ceremony site and pin on their wedding flowers. The brides
father
should also arrive at this time if he did not come earlier with the
bride
and her mother. The ushers will assist in pinning corsages on the
mothers and other honored guests who have arrived early for the
photography
session. Photographs begin at this time especially when you have
a large wedding party.
One hour prior to
the ceremony:
Pre-wedding photos should be
completed
no later than one hour prior to the ceremony. The bride and her
attendants
will take this opportunity to freshen makeup, possibly touch up the
wedding
gown with a puff of steam where it may have wrinkled during the photo
session,
and take a quick breather. Snack trays are a great idea in the dressing
area, but be sure not to include items that will stain or mark
clothing.
Fresh vegetable trays are a great idea. (You may want to consider
forgetting the ranch dressing, as if it is spilled on a garment it will
leave a grease mark when quickly spot cleaned).
Forty-five
minutes prior to
the ceremony:
The ushers will want to be
certain
of
the seating arrangements and be available in the vestibule of the
church
for early arrivals. The best man should see to it that the marriage
license
has been given to the pastor if it was not done so earlier.
Thirty minutes
prior to the
ceremony:
The organist begins to play
the
prelude
music as the ushers escort guests to their seats.
Ten minutes prior
to the
ceremony:
Time for a final "once over"
for the
wedding
participants.
Five minutes
prior to the
ceremony:
The head usher will escort the
groom's
mother to her seat. The groom's father follows a few feet behind
the usher, then takes his seat beside his wife. It lends a nice touch
to
the wedding for a son to escort his mother down the isle at his
brothers
wedding whether or not he is the head usher. Mothers have also been
escorted
to their seat by the groom, when that is the desire of the couple.
Immediately
following the seating
of the
mother of the groom, the brides mother is escorted to her seat.
If
the ushers are also the grooms attendants, they will now take their
place
with the wedding party.
Ceremony
time:
Special music plays as the
candle
lighting
ceremony begins. Music changes to the chosen "processional" as the
candle
lighters leave the auditorium or find their seats.
The minister, groom
and best man
step into
their places at the front of the church.
The wedding party
enters, either
as couples
or the bridesmaids only, if the groomsmen took their place at the front
of the church moments earlier with the groom and best man.
The maid of honor
follows behind
the bridesmaids,
and the flower girl and ring bearer behind her. As everyone takes
their places at the front of the church, the organist will change to
the
music for the bride and her father's entrance. The congregation will
rise
in honor of the bride.
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