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  Who pays for what
One of the first things that should be done after the wedding date is set is to determine a budget for your wedding. The couple should decide if the ceremony will be formal, semiformal or informal. It stands to reason that  a formal wedding will be the most expensive and the informal, the least. In years past there were hard and fast rules as to who had to pay for what. Not so in this day and age. The burden of paying for the wedding has shifted in recent years from the shoulders of the father of the bride, to include the groom's family.  And with many couples marrying later and having money of their own, some weddings are completely paid for by the Bride and Groom. 

Though the rules aren't as clear as they used to be, the following table should help with any questions that arise as to "Who pays for What?" Remember though; these rules aren't set in stone and some compromise is to be expected.
Bride
  • Wedding Ring for Groom
  • Wedding Gift for Groom
  • Bridesmaid Gifts
  • Medical Visit for Bride
  • Bridesmaid Luncheon
  • Accommodations for out of town Guests
The Brides Family
  • Wedding Gown, Headpiece & Accessories
  • Bridesmaid Bouquets
  • Ceremony/Reception Flowers
  • Alter Baskets/Arches
  • Canopy/Carpet
  • Kneeling Bench/Candleabrahs
  • Rented Items for Wedding
  • Rented Items for Reception
  • Invitations/Announcements
  • Wedding Programs
  • Napkins/Matches/Printed Items
  • Church Fee
  • Musician/Soloist
  • Church Janitor
  • Reception Hall Fee
  • Catered Reception/Professional Services
  • Wedding Photography/Video
  • Orchestra/Band/DJ
  • Wedding Cake
  • Wedding Favors
  • Bridal Brunch
  • Father of Bride Formal Wear
Out-of-town Attendant or Family Member
  • Travel Expenses to the Wedding
The Children's Parents
  • Children's Formal Wear

Groom
  • Wedding Ring for Bride
  • Wedding Gift for Bride
  • Groomsmen/Usher Gifts
  • Bride's Bouquet
  • Mother's Corsages
  • Groom's Boutonniere
  • Groomsmen Boutonnieres
  • Usher's Boutonnieres
  • Marriage License
  • Medical Visit for Groom
  • Clergyman/Officiant Fee
  • Gloves/Ties/Ascots for Attendants
  • Limousine Service
  • Honeymoon Arrangements
The Grooms Family
  • Groom's Cake
  • Rehearsal Dinner
  • Father of Groom Formal Wear
Best Man/Groom's Attendants
  • Bachelor Party
  • Best Man Formal Wear
  • Groomsmen's Formal Wear
Bridesmaid's
  • Bridesmaid's Gowns
Maid/Matron of Honor
  • Maid/Matron of Honor Gown
Ushers
  • Usher's Formal Wear

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